abuse

 The Sexual Abuse Centre is a social services agency in New Zealand and they offer some tips for partners of survivors as well as a good deal of information about child sexual abuse.

Link: http://www.sexualabuse.co.nz/toher.htm

This book is targeted at the partners of abuse survivors (including but not liited to childhood sexual abuse). It provides guidance i 8 major areas:

Anger management
Safe and successful ways to express feelings
The dangerous trigger words: what are they; what they do
Touching or being touched: no more fear; no more guilt
Good sex: Loving, fulfilling intimacy
Decision-making and power: equal partners at last
Ending the silence: communication that worked
Commitment: being able to count on tomorrow

Link: http://www.amazon.com/Outgrowing-Pain-Together-Eliana-Gil/dp/0440503728